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Review of Mark Driscoll's Real Marriage

The following review comes from the former women's ministry leader at Mars Hill church where Mark Driscoll is the Sr. Minister. Here is her review . . . .

I haven't mentioned Mark Driscoll or Mars Hill on this blog in the 4 years since I stepped back from leading women's ministry there. By conviction, I've addressed principles, not people here, especially in a negative sense. However, in Real Marriage, Mark and Grace recall personal events as the foundation of the book, and they project their conclusions from these personal events onto those reading it. They have brought these things into the public arena and revealed much about intimate areas of their life that affected many people in their public ministry. In light of this, silence on these issues no longer seems the righteous choice. Keep reading . . .

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